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Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Mastering The English Language


I am concern about the government educational policy. Especially the never ending issue on how to improve the English usage among Malaysian. In order to produce a well knowledge citizens we should emphasize on educating the early generation with the appropriate input. The science and Mathematics subjects again will be taught in Malay Language (in 3 years time). I believe in government school because I am the product of government school. How to make the youngsters mastering the English?
It's going to be one hell of an issue judging from the array of information channel that they are exposed into these day. SMS languages won't be a much help...with all those boombastic word and short term. Whilst, the kids are exposing to this kind of technology as early as they can talk. Internet can help..a lot! if ...of course with the right information..but kids are more interested in other things once log-on.....maybe it's help in writing and reading the English ..but how about spoken English...will they be much help.
For the urban family it is normal nowadays to see an English speaking family due to the educational level of the parents whereas...the other part of the country, the one that are the main concern now...how to improve English among those in the rural area..
I can also see the race to become the trendiest family in town among the socialite.... to have the best of everything in order to be look as the top one in the social status hierarchy. It is healthy?
The race to find the best education for their kids...with the tuition centre...the top-end private schools...the best that money can buy.. Are we so obsessed? Terrifying indeed... I just make do with what the government has to offer.....
After all...learning is the process of life.. we all are part of the learning session..there's no one man-show..the school not 100% in responsible to the child development, there more parties involve..the family, the society, the environment, lifestyle.....these are the factors that going to shape the child... so.. I think...I'll just have to do the best to monitor the balance input from these parts to influence my child....

Monday, July 20, 2009

Nurturing The Gift



The greatest gift of all..Nurturing a life form from the womb, to the adventurous world. I am lucky enough to have being given to experience what I called..the process of the life cycle...the process of being part of the miracle.. For the first moment when it's being confirm that there's definitely going to a child growing inside you...all mixed reaction came exploding through your brain.. Excitement, scared to death(can I being through this whole episode of bringing a child to the world?) Well that's it, your pregnancy have been confirm...what shall I do next.... I take a deep breath...Let's the journey begin...................



Pregnancy Wonders (Do and Don't)

DO
1. Be as religious as you can be,..praying...all the three Surah..(Surah Maryam, Surah Yusuf, Surah Lokman and Yasin..) they are a must...!! everyday if you can...(seriously...My delivery process both..were so easy..)
2. Watch the attitude...be as nice as you can..:)
3. Temper management...serious issue.....for me...
4. Personal Hygiene...be as clean as you can..surrounding also.
5. TLC...all the time(It's Tender Loving Care)
6. Food intake..(healthy..and nutritious...you eat for 2, what to expect...small ratio..regularly...)
7. Appearance...look beautiful...make-up a bit la...
8. I have no idea...just the positive things....ALL...:)

DON'T
1. Tie a knot...a dead end knot..nope...they said it will cause the baby's brain underdeveloped.. let someone else do it for you..
2. Block any hole..drain, any..part that need blockage..don't do it..

I once heard a story...(story time), a mother was tidying up a home, without so much thought had jam an air-cond pipe because it's keep on leaking.. In result..the boy that arrived to the world have a difficulty to pass urine..doctor found out nothing is wrong with the child everything was fine, Up until he was big enough..one day.. the mother was tidying up the house again an at the time the granny was in the toilet..attended to the boy...she accidentally.. pull out the old rag out of the oir-cond pipe and the granny came out shouting that the boy can pass urine normally...In fact..this story was not happening to muslim family...if I'm not wrong..it's the chinese family...so just be caution..for your action...

3.Walk under the clothes line( I have no idea why...)
4. Be a chatter box...(just watch any weird things in front of you without be so nice to comment on anything..
5. I lost memory...continue....next time






CONFINEMENT

The vigorous moment, I think most women can't help but counting the days when will it be over. This writing is solely base on my experience...any unrelated item please be excused...;)
DO's
1. Hygiene...self hygiene of course...esspecially the luka one lah..
2. Barut...I used to wear the zap on one...convenient.
3. Jamu....any brand will do...I just used Mustika Ratu set
4. Walk around with small steps...
5. Tie the hair tightly...to avoid the air goes to your head...they said..
6. Wear socks...same air reason..
DON'T
1. Eat oily food, soupy food,
2. Drink too much water...accordingly
3. Ice cold drinks...definitely a no..no....
4. Walk around too much
5. Eat stuff that can lead to late healing of the stichess...such as eggs, seafood, etc...depends on your allergy reactions...hahhaha








Friday, July 17, 2009

What's A Girl Want

What is a girl ever wanted in life? A true love, the blink, everything the heart desired.....It's all come back to the root of creation... All girls wanted the same thing....the man that loves you, the adorable children, the best clothes, make-up, jewellery...the time of your life..happiness....but... This is a cruel world, nobody ever got what they really wanted. No matter how fortunate you are, no matter how sad your life is....nobody ever have what they want...it's a human nature..never to feel satisfy on what you have. Forever in the race of chasing the impossible.. You can't change life...but life...is about changing....So..enough mumbling...let's go to the girls wardrobe...the essential pieces.. every girl should have..








A Must In The Wardrobe

1. Clean telekung!! and sejadah of course!..( I am normal religious person but I can't stand smelly telekung..hygiene girls,.. remember..cleanliness is close to godliness)

2. Black pant/slack...(Smart cut)
3. White shirt....(Smart cut)
4. Blue Jeans...(Not too expensive..Levi's is fine as long as it fits you perfectly, avoid the mum's jeans....)
5. T-shirt....(any smart one..short sleeve or long..for short sleeve you can wear the inner inside) 6. Black Skirt...(A...or pencil cut...as long as smart)
7. Black jeans...(straight or skinny)
8. Baju kurung..for casual.
9. Baju Kebaya for special Occasion
10. Blouse of different design..(don't stick to one design..but many colours)..
11. sweat shirt/pants
12. comfy PJs..
13. comfy bra and panties..(throw the tear and loose one!!)
14. Good shoe for shopping...
15. Good shoe for one hell of all doll out look!

(The list will be added according to my state of mind..;)...)

There's a story once I heard that a couple of VIPs..being in an accident and badly injured.The datuk and datin then have to be tended to immediately..when the nice outer clothes being take off, the caretaker then discover that both of them are wearing well lets just say..a badly conditions undershirt...despite of the glamorous outer layer ...so girls..do take care of the most essential pieces of all..your UNDERGARMENTS...! there are not that expensive..especially in giant or Carefour.. Let it always be new...rather than expensive but in the state of horror!! Remember..what you put on will interact on the way you feel...When you feel good inside..You'll definitely will feel good outside...The confidence boost will make a lot of different...Why are we wearing the best pieces to the interview session...? to make us feel confidence of course... Then why can't we fell confidence all the time...

A Must In The Make-UP

1. Moisturizer!!!..remember always mosturize..!mosturize..!mosturize..!(regardless what brand..as long as it's suit your skin conditions)
2. Loose powder...( Baby Johnson's also can do... :P)
3.Compact powder(any brand you like)
4. Blusher (any brand..but personally all my make-up ar from Body shop...environmental friendly..konon!)
5. Eyeshadow...(try to buy the one that come in many cakes rather than loose one...it's not only cheaper..but also convenient..remember..good make-up is all about blending)
6. Lipstick...( any brand that does not harm your luscious lips...)
7. Lip balm..( for sensitive lip like me..a good base..before applying your lipstick..)
8. Curler..(A must..!! A little bit of curlling eyelashes can make so much different!! )
9. Mascara..(if you like..I'm not a fan of this item coz..sometimes a hassle when you want to take wudu'..smudges will be a disaster..)

10. The brushes..make sure the brushes are always be cleaned..brushes from Sinma also can do..as long as you always clean them ....and it's properly dried.



Noted that I haven't mention any foundation...I am not a foundation user...because I found out that it can actually make your pores become bigger..in result of very much visible holes.... I believe in natural beauty..and foundation is not what I have in mind..without proper cleansing..the foundation can cause varied upcoming probs to your skin..


(Will be continued...............)








Unit Trust Scheme


Unit Trust Public Mutual

Dear Friends,

As a Unit Trust Consultant I would like to share the benefits of investing in this scheme.. It's a long term investment and with the right company and consultant you will have the opportunity to make profits with small amount of money. With a minimum risk and the right strategy you will see the money will work for you regardless of the market conditions. With the government permission to invest the first account of KWSP in unit trust scheme it is definitely proven that the investment will give you more pro than cons. Normally the return in this investment is more than Fixed Deposits and KWSP. You will have the choice to invest in the Syariah Funds(100% halal) or Conventional Funds. Let the money work for you to achieve your own personal goal. We all dream of having better financial state, better educations for the kids, dream house, dream car, retirement plan. All of this are possible with the wises choice.

For more information ,feel free to ask......

:) Adios

Investment 101

1. Adequate amount(Min 1k cash)(KWSP-base on calculation)
2. Reputable Company....with high rate successful performances
3. Unit Trust Consultant...preferably the one that will be with you through various market conditions and will always be there to guide you. Noted, make sure the UTC have a plan for your investment.

Plan

1. Dollar Cost Averaging strategy(helps to lower the risk)
2. Unit Trust market conditions...what are the plan to go through the various waves.
3. Unit trust scheme is not ASB where you can leave your money forever like a safe deposits....it need constants monitoring in order to achieve the full benefits. It is a mid-long term maturity investment but don't misunderstood the concept..why waste the opportunity for early profits...
4. Check with the consultant the plan install for you and regular report update.