Nurturing The Gift

The greatest gift of all..Nurturing a life form from the womb, to the adventurous world. I am lucky enough to have being given to experience what I called..the process of the life cycle...the process of being part of the miracle.. For the first moment when it's being confirm that there's definitely going to a child growing inside you...all mixed reaction came exploding through your brain.. Excitement, scared to death(can I being through this whole episode of bringing a child to the world?) Well that's it, your pregnancy have been confirm...what shall I do next.... I take a deep breath...Let's the journey begin...................



Pregnancy Wonders (Do and Don't)

DO
1. Be as religious as you can be,..praying...all the three Surah..(Surah Maryam, Surah Yusuf, Surah Lokman and Yasin..) they are a must...!! everyday if you can...(seriously...My delivery process both..were so easy..)
2. Watch the attitude...be as nice as you can..:)
3. Temper management...serious issue.....for me...
4. Personal Hygiene...be as clean as you can..surrounding also.
5. TLC...all the time(It's Tender Loving Care)
6. Food intake..(healthy..and nutritious...you eat for 2, what to expect...small ratio..regularly...)
7. Appearance...look beautiful...make-up a bit la...
8. I have no idea...just the positive things....ALL...:)

DON'T
1. Tie a knot...a dead end knot..nope...they said it will cause the baby's brain underdeveloped.. let someone else do it for you..
2. Block any hole..drain, any..part that need blockage..don't do it..

I once heard a story...(story time), a mother was tidying up a home, without so much thought had jam an air-cond pipe because it's keep on leaking.. In result..the boy that arrived to the world have a difficulty to pass urine..doctor found out nothing is wrong with the child everything was fine, Up until he was big enough..one day.. the mother was tidying up the house again an at the time the granny was in the toilet..attended to the boy...she accidentally.. pull out the old rag out of the oir-cond pipe and the granny came out shouting that the boy can pass urine normally...In fact..this story was not happening to muslim family...if I'm not wrong..it's the chinese family...so just be caution..for your action...

3.Walk under the clothes line( I have no idea why...)
4. Be a chatter box...(just watch any weird things in front of you without be so nice to comment on anything..
5. I lost memory...continue....next time

CONFINEMENT

The vigorous moment, I think most women can't help but counting the days when will it be over. This writing is solely base on my experience...any unrelated item please be excused...;)

DO's

1. Hygiene...self hygiene of course...esspecially the luka one lah..

2. Barut...I used to wear the zap on one...convenient.

3. Jamu....any brand will do...I just used Mustika Ratu set

4. Walk around with small steps...

5. Tie the hair tightly...to avoid the air goes to your head...they said..

6. Wear socks...same air reason..

DON'T

1. Eat oily food, soupy food,

2. Drink too much water...accordingly

3. Ice cold drinks...definitely a no..no....

4. Walk around too much

5. Eat stuff that can lead to late healing of the stichess...such as eggs, seafood, etc...depends on your allergy reactions...hahhaha