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Friday, February 5, 2010

Men of Kelate...

I don't care whether this issue is offensive or not to Kelantan men..but it just my mere observation..
I was shock to learn today that one of my friend had choose to take a second wife.. As a women this kind of issue is definitely a major taboo..none of us can accept the fact of sharing..let alone husband..the one that you shared everything...every secrets and most humiliating thing about each other..most close to you...
Upon talking about this subject has make me piss off...Can man just be faithful to one...like women we have no choice...It's an obligation to just one...as for man, they can choose...choose to have one,two,three and four...when in fact the reason for Allah make that as it is not for man solely...its for man to protect women who are needed the protection the most...A roof on her and her children head, a food for her and her children mouth,clothes..anything necessary for them to live..
Sadly..today polygamy is only base on lust...
He makes good money, he makes good father, he has beautiful wife, he's still young at the age of 33 and have everything and why not....let me have a new wife...because I CAN AFFORD!!..and...he indeed a kelantanese..
I remember during my early womanhood, i choose to ignore kelantan boy because of the famous story of polygamy that was so..synonyms with them..
Most man...especially Kelantanese..that have everything..will definitely...DEFINITELY...with the capital D..will take on 2,3 or 4..wife...
Pardon to all...but it just so true..
Back to my friend, the wife knew and..he said.."Don't be so dramatic...I can afford to"..what else can she says...She's been given everything from money to 2 million home..can she complain some more...The wedding is being put on hold because the girlfriend hasn't said yes..She wanted the friend to divorce the wife first, but he said NO.... there's no reason to do so...She's a good partner..she was told...
Now I wonder he built the mansion so big maybe to accommodate all the wives that he gonna marry..maybe...but there's a possibility..hehe..
Hmmmmm...I don't know la you......

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